Goodbye Quiet

All good things must come to an end. On 15 January 2022, with a heavy heart, I had to say goodbye to the quiet street and the joy of the evening silence. When the 8pm curfew ended on 20 November 2021, the 10pm curfew was my solace to blunt my sadness. But now that the 10pm curfew is also gone, all that is left is the fond memories of lying on my bed, turning in for the day, feeling so relaxed, with no street noise, no sounds of Kg Ayer speedboats slamming on the waves, no sounds of smugglers’ boats gliding slowly through the Brunei River, no overtime work banging sound from the nearby building construction site, just the sounds of crickets and frogs as lullabies. Oooh, those are the nights…best night sleeps ever.

Well yeah, I still think that the evening curfew didn’t make sense as far as Covid-19 spread prevention is concerned given that people are still allowed to go crazy in the daylight, and now the mere 4 hours 12am to 4 am curfew is mindblowingly joke-worthy. But, I came to enjoy and got hooked to the serendipity coming out of this nonsense Covid-19 measure. Will the 8pm curfew ever come back? Maybe. Till we meet again…..

Bad Aftertaste

It sure felt like 2021 passed by in hyper lapse, but though 2021 is now gone, it left a trail of bad aftertaste. The Covid-19 deaths, many of them are senior citizens in their 70s, 80s, 90s, are truly heartbreaking. They managed to dodge age-related health issues only to be taken out by Covid-19. And to spend their last days without their close ones physically by their side, it is really painful to even imagine.

With 98 deaths, 95 of them being within a span of just a few months (Note: I am fully aware of the MOH’s “sanitised” Covid-19 deaths figure), 2021 went down as a dark year in the country’s history. How could it not be. For a country with a small population like Brunei, losing that many countrymen and women in a flash is a national tragedy, but one that didn’t get the attention and sombre airtime it rightfully deserves. People are instead so quickly to move on, totally oblivious about how fu€k3d-up our mitigation efforts are. The age of individualism that has been dawning on the country’s population is here. Whole-of-nation has no chance to be anything more than just a mirage. And oh yeah, for the people calling the lead a hero in this crisis, I want to ask you… what is so heroic about losing that many men and women under the person’s watch?

A Sense of Deja Vu

“An event cancelled is better than a life cancelled” : WHO, 20 Dec 2021

Here we go again. Fasten your seatbelt and brace for a wild ride. The country has entered the endemic phase at a time when the threat of Omicron variant looming large like its no one’s business. Its deja vu all over again, the “wait and see” or “happen first and then react” approach that we saw pre-delta wave in the country. Had proactive prevention being done instead of bersuka ria during the grace period, many of the delta deaths could have been avoided (Just saying…). Now it seems like we don’t learn anything at all from that lapse of readiness as we are doing it again.

When the UK had its first Omicron death days ago, the country scrambled to accelerate getting booster jabs for its population. Are we drawing lessons from this UK experience? With the sad figure of its population who got booster jabs at hardly even 10%, Brunei should hold off bersuka ria and use this grace period to fiercely getting the figure up. (Merely urging the population to get the booster jabs in the press conference is not the “fiercely” meant here). Omicron has already entered Indonesia, Malaysia, Singapore and other closeby countries. With the ignorance in proactive prevention, it is a matter of days even hours before Omicron unleashes its wrath here. Think about that.. Yes…you there… who’s dining in at the restaurant with your pals, sitting closeby to one another, mask off.

Well…yeah…during the press conference, the lead said “Brunei can manage the impact of Omicron with booster jabs and health guidelines”. Firstly, trademark arrogance. Secondly, the assurance does not make sense at all. When we are talking about “impact” it means that the thing already happen. Booster jabs and health guidelines are part of “prevention” not “management of impact”. Its like telling your kids that your family can manage the situation of a home invasion with heavy duty locks and always locking the doors and windows. What is the point of all that when the intruders are already inside your home. Of course they don’t want the public to panic, but please not by misleading them with nonsense assurance.

The pandemonium that ensued the thousands of Delta variant cases should be a clear indicator, or wake up call rather, that we will be brought to our knees should Omicron, which is 2-fold more infectious than Delta, makes its rounds here. Its like asking a country who had withdrawn from hosting the Sea Games twice to host the Olympic Games. So drop the arrogance and do the maths.

Just saying…

Roadkill

Shout out to the guy who was alert and braked his car to avoid running over a puppy that was darting across the road. It happened right in front of our building last Sunday. I thought the puppy was a goner as I witnessed the moment when the puppy and the car was about to collide. I heard a big thud which I thought was the moment of impact followed by agonising whimpers.

I was bracing myself for the gruesome scene of the aftermath. The sight of a roadkill is never pretty. Heads got smashed and flattened, eyeballs popping out, stuff of nightmares. Anybody not affected by the sight must be a natural psychopath. Despite the gruesome scene, I just have to suck it up, get the carcass off the road before other cars grind it to splinters, creating a far more unbearable sight.  

I activated my one-man roadkill cleanup crew, prepared my gloves, a garbage bag, and a shovel, ready to extract and bury the poor roadkill. I had to do it as efficient and as quick as possible to avoid catching the attention of other tenants (some of which are judgmental a-holes). When I got to the scene, I didn’t see any dead puppy. Then from the corner of my eye I saw it under a parked car, wagging its tail, looking a bit shaken but very much alive. I just stood there for a while, dumbfounded, processing what just happened, or not happen rather. Then a sense of relief. Phew! 

We like to think that residential roads are no place for speeding cars. But there are idiots who god knows whatever for drive like maniacs along these roads. On top of these speeding idiots, there are people whose focus is just 10% on the road and 90% on their phones. These two types of road scums would mow anything on the road they are driving through – monitor lizards, monkeys, cats, dogs, squirrels, small humans, big humans, anything. If only they come to their senses, slow down and keep their eyes on the road, many of the roadkills could have been avoided. But I know that is just wishful thinking. They won’t change without any forced inducement. Their kryptonite are speed bumps. Let the speed bumps make their cars fly to oblivion.     

Life of A Non-Vaxx

If there is one thing that a person has 100% decision-making power on, it would be on one’s own body. So if there are people who don’t want or not ready to be vaccinated yet, they got every right to refuse or sit out the Covid-19 vaccination programme. The vaccine does not block anyone from contracting the virus, neither does it prevent anyone with the virus (vaccinated or not) from transmitting the virus to others. The major difference between the vaccinated and the unvaccinated is that the vaccinated people got stronger antibodies to fight the virus, clear the virus faster, avoid severe illness and can recover without hospitalisation. For the vaccinated people, good for you. But if the unvaccinated people are already made fully aware of the risks of not getting vaccinated and still don’t want the jabs, then let them be, its their body, its their choice. Its not like they go out on the street to conduct any anti-vaxx rallies like we see in other countries, or conduct any campaign to persuade other Bruneians not to get vaccinated. They don’t. So there is no reason to treat the unvaccinated like they are bad people.

It is totally understandable if the vaccinated are worried for the unvaccinated people especially if they are among their loved ones. But sadly the narratives that are presented including during the press conference are not that of worry but more of casting the unvaccinated as degil (stubborn) and treating them like they are social deviants. The banning of unvaccinated and not fully vaccinated people from entering premises is supposed to be a move out of care, care to don’t want them to get the virus and suffer the severe illness from it given their “unprepared” antibodies. I totally support this move which also serves as impetus for them to consider eventually getting vaccinated. But it was never expressed this way when the banning was announced, instead it was expressed more of like baru kau tau! (serves you right!) kind of message. So its not surprising that this kind of mindset trickled down to the masses. One tiktok user wrote “No vax? Stay at home. Don’t endanger other people’s lives”.  This is but one example of the resulting misguided thinking from the irresponsible narratives. 

Maria is not anti-vaxx. She has her own reason to not get the vaxx yet. She knew the risks. She knew what she was getting herself into by not getting the vaxx. She also knew that the virus won’t be able to hurt her if she denies any opportunity for it to enter her body, by protecting all virus entry points, wearing double masks, face shield, sanitising surfaces, washing her hands, the works. She doesn’t put herself anywhere close physically to anyone. She has not met her siblings for months now. When she visited her mom, she just waved at her mom from outside through the window and left some goodies on the table outside.

Before the unvaxxed were banned from entering premises, Maria still went to the supermarkets. She maintained her distance from the other shoppers. She remained alert all the time, imagining that the other shoppers are all zombies, so everytime one is closeby, Maria would step away. She would wait for the aisle to be clear before going into it. In all the time Maria went to the supermarket, she realised that eventhough all the other shoppers were wearing masks, it was very obvious that she was the only one who portrayed a lot of care about physical distancing. One time, she was standing in front of a rack looking for a specific thing, her guard was down for a split second, when suddenly a shopper was right next to her sticking her hand out to get something from the same rack. Wtf!! At the payment counter, Maria was waiting for the receipt and change from the cashier when a shopper rolled up her trolley, stood very close to Maria who was not done yet with the transaction, and started unloading her shopping. What is wrong with these people!!?? Do they think that just because they are vaccinated, they are now immune and could now stop caring about the SOP. Idiots!

Things Many Locals Probably Don’t Know – Part I

Kampung Setia – Following the 1963 formation of the Federation of Malaysia and Malaysia’s refusal to return Limbang to Brunei, in September 1964, about 1,000 people from Kampung Ranggau in Limbang who had relatives in and identified themselves as part of Brunei had migrated to Brunei and settled at Kampong Ayer in a village later named as Kg Setia (Loyal Village), as a commemoration to their loyalty to the Sultan of Brunei.

Bandar – Ever wondered why the Bandar “skyline” looks the same throughout the decades. This is because a significant number of properties in the bandar area are owned by foreigners, thus the “its complicated” status when it comes to city planning stuff. These ownerships began all the way back during the British Residency.

Time Piece Monument at Bandar – Blink and you’ll miss it. Exactly the case circa mid-late 2000s when this historic landmark was replaced with a new and more modern looking clock, only to be reinstalled at the same spot a few days later.

They Lurk

Thieves population continued to increase. Theft cases everyday. Prison overcrowded with habitual thieves. Is anyone keeping track?

Brunei has no shortage of thieves. From shoplifters to cat burglars to cable thieves, you name it. Even fruits and livestock are not spared, they too got snatched by thieves. From way back when, thefts have been the number one crime in the country, and as years and decades went by, the activity is showing no sign of slowing down. Making it worse is over the years, some local thieves had taken up a fancy to knives and machetes and graduated to become daring robbers and murderers. Mugging began to emerge. In 2020, a man, in broad daylight, threatened the cashier of a convenient store using a knife asking for the victim to hand over proceeds of the shop. The daring armed robbery on a goldsmith at Kg Tanjung Bunut also in 2020 is another wtf development. Unlike in the more advanced countries, where fingerprints would lead to arrests and CCTV footages are meticulously analysed, we can’t expect much from our local police force where the arrests were either thanks to lucky breaks or dumb criminals. Until such time when our country is able to keep pace in the crime busting department, we just have to live with this reality.

My family has experienced first hand that CCTV footage did not result in conviction. So don’t think that having CCTVs would help deter criminals, let alone getting a slam dunk case. Not in Brunei. An alarm system, on the other hand, would do an excellent deterrent job. Thieves would definitely scram once the alarm got set off. Granted that fixing an alarm system could be expensive and not yet mainstream in Brunei, the best approach for now is to deny the thieves any opportunity to break into your homes or premises. Thieves love naked doors and windows, so fix metal bars everywhere, that would do it. Never take  the danger of housebreakers lightly. Gone are the days when thieves tip toed their way in and out people’s homes quietly, mindful not to alert the sleeping homeowners. Once they successfully broken into your house, thieves, who in most if not all of the time, have some kind of weapons with them, will have no issue manhandling the homeowners. There have been a number of times where housebreaking victims got tied up and threatened with weapons. For the two unfortunate cases below, the homeowners weren’t so lucky.

On 21 June 1999, two men, broke into a house in Kiarong. The house was occupied by a doctor from India, his wife and their two children. The doctor’s wife was awaken when one of the thieves opened the door to their bedroom on the first floor of the house. She got up to switch on the light and was shocked to see a man standing just 2 feet away from her. Instead of getting the hell out of there, the thief was unhinged and instead walked towards her. The wife screamed waking her husband who impulsively jumped off his bed and went after the man who had ran down the stairs. The man managed to get away but not before stabbing the doctor with a knife. The doctor staggered a few steps up the stairs then collapsed. He was rushed to the hospital and was pronounced dead 15 minutes after arrival at RIPAS. Two men were later held as suspects in the crime, 26-year-old Mohammad Dahrie bin Jaraee and 31-year-old Saufi bin Mohd Arif. Unsurprisingly, both were habitual thieves who have been in and out of jail before. The case dragged on for years, partly because the doctor’s heartbroken widow, the witness of the crime, had packed up and returned to India 3 days after the incident. In 2001, she was flown to Brunei to testify in court where she identified one of the suspects as the one who she saw in their bedroom that fateful night. Despite the prosecutor’s fierce objection, the two suspects, who pleaded not guilty to the charge, were granted bail and the case was adjourned to January the following year. Nothing has been publicised on the case after that (at least not in my knowledge). By way that the suspects pleaded not guilty and the sole witness being thousands of miles away in India (perhaps too traumatised to step foot in Brunei again), I am not surprised if the two suspects eventually walked, or just got mere 4 years jail term, the “sacred” number of years for culpable homicide.

On 18 April 2000, at about 3am, a thief broke into a house in Kg Jerudong. The 31-year-old son of the house owner detected the thief’s presence and gave chase. He managed to grab the thief who put up a fight. The scuffle woke up a number of the family members. They rushed to the living room where the noise came from and witnessed in horror as the thief struck the victim’s head with a hammer. As the victim fell to the floor, the thief fled through the back door where he had broken in from. With a nasty gaping wound on his head, the victim managed to remain conscious, even asking if everyone, especially his mom was okay. He remained conscious in the ambulance but fell into a coma upon arrival at RIPAS. Sadly, he never regain consciousness and passed away 9 days later. The victim’s sister had a good look at the thief and was able to give a description to the police. The police had their work cut out for them when, lo and behold, a man with the same description was seen at the ICU in RIPAS and outside the operating theatre where the victim was undergoing surgery. Perhaps the thief felt guilty and was quietly hoping that the victim was okay. Regardless whether he had no intention to kill, he must be kidding to think that someone would come out okay after being hit on the head by a hammer. It turned out that the thief, 28-year-old Musa bin Panjang was no stranger to the police. On top of being ex police officer (no kidding!), he also had been in and out of jail before, for you guess it..theft. Now he had graduated to become a murderer. Musa was sentenced to 15 years’ imprisonment and 10 strokes of the rattan. My guess is he did not serve the full 15 years and was released early for good behaviour, reoffended and continued on getting in and out of jail.

Apart from these two murders, there have also been a number of cases involving people who lived alone who were found dead with stab wounds on their bodies and items missing from their homes, suspected of being murdered in the hands of thieves as well. In these cases, what went down that led to their murders remained a mystery with the perpetrators never discovered.

None the Wiser

What were they thinking? But then again, probably they just thought that it was just a harmless joke.

It is perhaps not an overstatement to say that today most Bruneians spend their every waking hour on their mobile phones. We can always count on our mobile phones whenever there is the need to kill time, to pass boredom, to pretend not to realise someone’s presence when bumping into them, and many more uses. But this is now. How about back then, before there were iPhones and androids. Circa 2005. What did people do in place of constantly “playing” with their cellphones during that time. Well, the PC played a big part. I remember there were the mIRC (remember mIRC?), MSN messenger (remember MSN?), Bruclass (remember Bruclass?), Skype, not a whole lot, but good enough. 

In 2005, 3 friends – 32, 41 and 49 year old men, were playing around with some media editing app and had this idea of making the mouth move on a still picture of a face – a talking picture. They overlayed the mouth on the still picture with a video of their mouth and voice talking about some funny things. The result was a less than a minute video clip which the men later shared with their close friends and family members, whom they innocently thought would appreciate the humor, through MMS (remember MMS?) and email. Expectedly, those close friends and family members then shared the clip with their respective circle of friends and family members and on and on. I won’t say that the clip went viral, but it reached quite a number of the country’s population. These included the authorities.  

It didn’t take long before the authorities were able to track the men down who conveniently worked at the same company. One day in June 2006, the three men went to work as per their normal work days, none of them having the slightest inkling of what was about to go down that day. They didn’t get to go home from work as the authorities came to their workplace, scooped them up and took them away. Their officemates who saw the whole thing were left puzzled having no idea what it was about. Nothing had crossed their minds because they saw the three men as quite decent gentlemen and held good positions in the company. It was only after the police released a press statement on the arrest that their trouble with the law was revealed. Yep, it was the video clip. The less than a minute long clip they produced during their moment of goofiness would cost them a year in jail. 

So, what was wrong with the video clip? It might not be a big of a deal had they NOT used a still picture of the country’s leader. They were charged with carrying out activities considered seditious and derogatory to the royal family. It was the first such case in Brunei. It caught the population by surprise, but nonetheless necessary to bring awareness on the needless to say big no no.  


What If…

I must say, ever since the second wave of Covid-19 outbreak here, I had a lot of deep thought sessions, mostly early in the morning when I woke up, while staring at the ceiling, partly happy that I got to sleep in every single day, a wee bit missing the pre-Covid routine. In one of these sessions, my thoughts wandered off to some serious what ifs. What if there was no Covid-19 pandemic, meaning no disruption in air travels. What if in that alternate parallel world trajectory, there was a plane crash. But due to Covid-19 and the air travel restriction that followed, flights were cancelled, and that same plane never get to take off. So, while the people who had already booked the flight complained about ruined vacations, the inconvenience of trying to get refunded, they had no idea that the cancellation had just saved their lives. Mind blowing…

Anyways, once upon a time, in 2014, Lily had just ended her tour as a senior nurse. She had not reached retirement age yet, but she just had enough of the grueling hours which left her little time to spend with her 3 kids. Her eldest, her only girl, had just turned 13 that year. When one day, Lily first noticed her eldest wearing make up, she realised how much she had missed out on her children’s growing up years. She was envious of her husband, a stay-at-home dad, for having being able to be there through all the milestones. 

Lily wasted no time and the next day after her last day at work, she, her husband and kids flew to Malaysia for the much-needed family vacation. It was a trip that Lily had planned months earlier as a surprise to her husband and kids. Lily was over the moon and the kids were having a blast. They went to all the top tourist attractions there – Legoland, Genting Highlands, Malacca, you name it.

A week into their 2 weeks vacation, an idea popped up in Lily’s mind. Why don’t we fly to Beijing, she said. An excursion to China…that’s a great idea!, her husband said. The kids were all cheering in agreement. Lily went on the internet to book for their flight to Beijing. The plan was to go to Beijing from KL, spend 2-3 days there and come back to KL for their flight back to Brunei. Since all the upcoming afternoon flights to Beijing didn’t have seats available for 5 of them, Lily went on to book a midnight flight.

Lily excitedly announced to her husband and kids that their flight to Beijing had been booked for Saturday, in 3 days time, with departure time of 0035H arriving at 0630H. Upon hearing this, Lily’s middle child, 12 year old boy, said no no no no noooo way! One thing that Lily didn’t know at that time is that the boy is not a morning person. The husband knew this all too well because he had to deal with getting the boy up for school every morning. Don’t be ridiculous, Lily said. But the boy was dead serious, he totally protested and didn’t want to go, saying that he rather stay in KL alone. He spent the rest of the day sulking. Lily kept at the back of her mind that the whole trip was about strengthening her bond with her children, so she didn’t want to argue much about her son’s antics, but deep inside she was hoping that the boy would snap out of it and change his mind in the morning.

The next morning came and it was still a no from the boy. Lily found it a bit annoying but in the end she yielded to the boy’s protest and cancelled the booking.

Saturday morning came. It was 08 March 2014, Lily woke up around 9ish and switched on the TV. She was shocked to see what was on. Her jaw dropped. She looked like she had seen a ghost. She went to her middle son who was still sleeping, laid next to him and gave him a big hug. The boy was awaken by the hug and grumpily said “Arrrghhh mooooommm, please I want to sleep!”

The flight to Beijing that Lily had cancelled was MH370.