No Closure A-Head

This is a story about the first gruesome murder that rocked Brunei – the murder of Suraya. It happened in the late 1970s. I am still researching on the exact year this happened. So far, reading Pelita Brunei from the year 1976, the then Head of Police in a speech indicated that there was no crime of murder in Brunei, and that the only major issue for the police at that time was the increasing number of fatal road accidents. So, based on this, I’m assuming that this murder happened after 1976. I also recalled being scared about the ghost of the murdered Suraya, knocking on doors looking for her missing head. This reinforced my theory that it happened after 1976, because there is no way for me to remember about it if it happened before the year, considering my age at that time. But my hunt for the exact year continues.

For now, not much was known about Suraya, at least nothing on record that I knew of. Nothing on her full name, her age, her kampung. So far I’ve not found any printed details about the murder. Given that the crime happened well more than 40 years ago, the credibility of information on it depends on who the information was from. It would be good if I can find someone who knew her, her friends, school or workmates or family member and perhaps the police personnel who dealt with the case. Right now, the next to credible information that I can get are from those who were at that time aware of the crime, affected by the shock, following the developments and still remember about it vividly today.

I managed to get some good information from someone who knew one of her siblings. The person told me her father’s name. Out of respect for her family, I won’t mention the name here. From the information, Suraya was from Kg Jangsak and she was just a teenager when she was killed.

It was said that Suraya was raped and murdered, her head was mutilated. Her headless body was found along the track leading to a water tower in Mabohai area. They never found her head. There was a wide belief that her boyfriend did it. There were samples sent to Singapore for forensic testing. But despite the high hopes, the people were quickly disappointed when the boyfriend was never arrested.

Clearly, given the sad state of her body, missing her head and all, it indicated an overkill, which means that her killer was not a stranger. If the head was deliberately removed to prevent identification, the killer would also have removed her fingers. In any investigation on a murder like this, I would expect the police to quickly focus on these 3 people: The person who “found” the body; the person who last seen her alive; and her significant other, in this case her boyfriend. There is a big chance that one of them is the killer or got something to do with the murder.

Not only that justice was never served for Suraya, she was accused of haunting people as a ghost knocking on doors looking for her head in what would become an urban legend that is much talked about to this day.

 

This is No Jog

Time for another Brunei bizarre first. This involved two firsts –  first riadah murder and first (to my knowledge) murder case with released composite sketches.

Rapists and murderers preying on women joggers or hikers at recreation parks and nature reserves are common, but not in Brunei. Women in peaceful and safe Brunei never had to worry about being ambushed or attacked while out exercising alone. But that all changed in 2014, when the country was shocked with the case of a missing 39-year-old woman hiker at Bukit Shahbandar. After an extensive search, her dead body was found the next day inside a 20-feet ravine (thats quite deep). She was sexually assaulted and killed by manual strangulation. 12 days later, the police released composite sketches of the “persons of interest”, two individuals exactly.

CI

The fact that no one witnessed the moment when the woman was interrupted from her hike and that the manner of killing was by manual strangulation, to me, showed that the perpetrator was lying in wait and that the attack and murder were premeditated, and most likely the attacker(s) had done such crime before and got away with it.

In the days following the murder, people were anxious and women were scared to go out for a jog or hike. Bukit Shahbandar was deserted for a moment. The police said they were still investigating and have interviewed more than 300 people. A press conference was held in order to appease the public.

Days turned to weeks turned to months turned to years, and no one has been arrested yet, and no more press conference to update the public. Slowly, people began to forget about the case, and went back to their lives.

One thing I learned from my visual research (watching youtube videos), the most difficult crime to solve is the stranger on stranger type. When the murderer and the victim are strangers and no common affiliation at all. In this type of case, having DNA evidence is meaningless if you don’t have a suspect to compare them to.  And there is no CODIS in Brunei, so dead end there. Dusting for fingerprints at a crime scene may look promising, but again, do we have a database of fingerprints for all (locals, permanent residents and foreign workers) to look for matches??

Looking at the composite sketch, it goes without saying that the persons of interest are not locals. What have not been divulged to the public is that they have been identified, and true indeed they were expatriates, not the typical foreign workers doing construction and all, they were in the professionals field. But, before our police even got a chance to react, they have conveniently left the country.  And that was it. I don’t think the solution of this case will see the light of day.

My Top 5

Top 5 annoying things that my cats do that test my patience…

5. When they refused to move when I was sweeping and they savagely fought the broom instead.

4. When I just finished cleaning the kitchen top then they walked all over it.

3. When they decided to take a dump while I was about to finish cleaning their litter box.

2. When they came to me putting on their adorable look, getting all lovey-dovey then they sneezed on my face.

1. When I was watching youtube video on my iPad then they passed by in front of the screen and clicked a different video with their tails.

What Makes People Poor?

During this Ramadan month, much of the headlines on the news are about donations to “fakir miskin” in the country. This has puzzled me for the past few years. I think back in 2017, the issue began to catch my attention – people receiving these donations referred to as fakir miskin. Do we really have fakir miskin in the country? I always thought that poor people are defined as those who have nothing. Not just no job, but no means to get food hence nothing to eat, nowhere to cook, take a shower, sleep hence no shelter from the elements. I do get that there are Bruneians who cannot afford luxury things, but I would refer to them as  people with kurang kemampuan kewangan, in other word broke, not outrightly fakir miskin.

What I also don’t understand is the food drive. I mean they consumed the food that would last them maybe a month or so, then what. They are still broke. With Brunei littered with $1 even 50cent nasi katok vendors, Im sure cash will be more appreciated than a carton of instant noodles, which by the way, may contain MSG and boric acid that are dangerous to health.

I strongly believe that there is no one in the country who is starving or spending every day wandering around looking for food or money-for-food donations because he or she has not eaten for days. So I find it annoyingly lame when people, particularly today’s youngsters, organise this giving-out-food drive in the name of “community service”. Yes, we see this a lot in the US, but those people there are homeless and would definitely appreciate hot broth and soups especially during the cold winter nights. But, in Brunei, seriously? Do I look like I want food from you?? Do I look like I can’t afford cooking or buying this bubur lambuk myself?? Do I look like Im lost and couldn’t find my way home where I can cook my own food?? Which part of this is “community service” to you??

The youngsters these days seem to have poor understanding and poor conceptualisation (pun very much intended) of what community service entails. They see Kylie Jenner giving out food packs to people on the street and they thought that this is what community service is. They should ask the question, does this thing that we do improve the quality of life of the less fortunate people??

Giving out packed meals to random people? NO

Volunteering in festivals? NO

How about going to Kampongs and helping the less financially-able people fix their houses. I also see an elderly couple, the wife in a wheelchair some mornings at the bus stop waiting for the bus to go somewhere. I wonder what their stories are. Maybe the elderly lady needed to go for regular appointments at the hospital, or has to undergo dialysis three times a week (I miss my dad). Why not volunteer to provide transportation to these transportation-needy people.

I have a nephew whose salary is just $400 a month. He is not poor. He just can’t afford to go eat at fancy restaurants, buy a luxury car or an iPhone. He knew his financial limitations, so he spent within his means. There are lots of cheap cars and cheap phones available. Any money received from parents or relatives are to be put in savings that can be used for any future unexpected spendings such as when the car breaks down, fix leaking roofs or the air conditioner. So yes, they would appreciate money to inflate their savings rather than receiving maggi, eggs or beras wangi, and please don’t call them fakir miskin because they are not.

Just saying…

My Spring Cleaning Chronicle

Ive been spending the past 5 years trying to get my place back to shape. There are just so many things in here and there are just not enough space to pack everything away neatly. The fact that I don’t throw things away made it really worse. I also have this habit of buying things that I don’t need and bought them just because they are fancy and I was worried that they would be sold out the next time I come back to the shop. Now those things are lying around here and there. I am determined to finally conclude this endless spring cleaning.

The first thing that I need to do is to make up some space. This means that I need to get rid of some items. First in the line if this old and dirty queen size mattress. The mattress came with the apartment when I moved in back in 1999. Even then it was not brand new as someone had been staying in the unit before me. This means that the old mattress is more than 20 year old!! Imagine the bed bugs that it has amassed over the years. I was in a dilemma actually on whether I can get rid of it, since the mattress was one of the items in the inventory list when I moved in. Then I remembered that theres a big storeroom downstairs where I see tenants put some old furniture. I may need to check if theres still space in there to stow away this elderly mattress.

So today, 14th May, was the first day of my leave. Spent 6 hours cleaning and putting away the clutters. I only managed to cover 2 square meters, shed litres of sweat. 3 big spring cleaning gestures I did today: threw away my broken electric water dispenser (free), bought two clothes hanger stands ($30.80), and bought super large garbage bags ($6.50).

Second day of my leave. Spent another 6 hours of cleaning. Managed to cover just another square meter, still my sweat was pouring like rain. Only one big spring cleaning gesture: threw away a big box from my store room. Slowly I can see some light in there. But there are still many relics deep in my store room that I still cannot reach.

Third day of my leave began with full of energy. Ordered some muscles (Indians, $40) to reorder the mayhem in the storeroom downstairs, make same space available to provide a new home for my clutters from upstairs. The job was quick but it was the biggest spring cleaning gesture ever. These were things that have been sitting in my unit for more than a decade, never moved an inch, and finally they were liberated to go join their friends live in the farm. Saying goodbye were the dining set, queen size mattress, bed frames, and two side cabinets. By 11am I was already burned out. I was done for the day.

Fourth day of my leave. I was too tired from the day before. I had no energy to do any cleaning. Spent the day tossing and turning in bed, watching youtube videos on my iPad. Once in a while, my giant iPad dropped on my face as I dozed off. Ouch! By evening, I was determined to achieve at least something for my spring cleaning. So I went out, go to a furniture store, and purchased 3 glass-door cabinets ($1,007). One for my kitchen, one for my dining room and one for my bathroom. The cabinets are my answer to preventing my ninja cats from knocking down, breaking, and peeing on my things.

Day 5 was really slow. Decided to do some laundry. Back home I managed to collect a garbage bag full of small boxes that I kept all these years because “they may have some use later”. It was quite a significant spring cleaning gesture given that I never threw things away. Even when putting the garbage bag in the big trash bin I felt so guilty. There are more of them boxes here and there. I guess there will be more of such moments to come.

By day 6 I think I was totally burned out. My terrible headache was not helping the situation. Got a phonecall at midday while I was wasting away in bed, the furniture people decided to deliver my cabinets that day instead of next week as earlier stated by them. So I forced myself out of bed and asked them to just put the cabinets by the door. I was surprised to see how big the cabinets actually are. I went to the storeroom to see if I can continue unearthing some junks to throw away. But I was so ill, so nothing happened there. I decided to do something light. Filled up a large garbage bag with expired food from my dining room. They were stuff I bought from my trips as goodies that I didn’t get to give out to people. With the very little energy I had left I rolled up an old carpet that was in the kitchen, dragged and put it in the dumpsters downstairs. That was the first carpet that I bought when I moved into the unit back in 1999. I threw it away with a heavy heart. RIP old carpet.

Day 7 my spring cleaning energy became depleted. It took a lot of will even to wake up. I went to the store room, took out my old vacuum cleaner and sent it away to the farm. I took out another box. In it are old documents from my early working years. I stopped a while thinking what to do with them. They are of nostalgic value, but this is the very reason of my space predicament. I left the storeroom and look for other things to do. I started pushing the new glass cabinets to where I want them (lifting them by myself was impossible). I was careful not to hurt my back, so just gentle pushes. Managed to get two in place. While organising things into the cabinets, my mind kept on thinking about the old vacuum that I threw out. It was my first vacuum cleaner that I bought when I moved into this apartment. RIP old vacuum.

Day 8 I started to gain my energy back. Spent the morning doing laundry. Some of the clothes I washed that day were those that Ive not seen for almost a year. They have been sitting inside my laundry basket for ages, screaming to be washed. In the afternoon, I continued packing things into the new cabinets. I realised that I may need one more of the cabinet. Slowly, the clutters in my kitchen and dining room started to disappear. Then I saw the sad state of my dining chairs. Their plastic coatings have been ravaged by my psycho cats. I may need to send them to the shop for repair.

Day 9 was uneventful as far as my spring cleaning was concerned. I had to switch my attention to facelifting my mom’s living room for the upcoming Hari Raya. Me and my niece went to Tutong Town to look for wallpapers and new curtains. Then we went further down to Serambangun (translated to Waking up to horror) to get some new furniture for my mom. In the back of my mind, there are still lots to do at my place as my leave days are quickly depleting.

Day 10 back to the store room. As I went deeper I realised that many of the bulky things that are taking up space in there are just big empty boxes. There were also boxes which contained small boxes. Boy, I am really a box lady. I didn’t want to think too much about it (why I even kept them) and started to take them out enroute to the trash bin. I didn’t get to do much of anything else. After a few boxes I got really tired and that was it for the day.

The saga continues…

Sleepy BSB

BSB is still a sleepy town. I am yet to figure out why it is still so. Of course there are new things but people are still sparse. I went to Mary Brown Friday night. There were only me and my niece in the restaurant from the moment we ordered until we finished our meals. Next door, I saw a grocery store. The items are neatly arranged. I can see fresh fruits and vegetables. There was a good flow of customers at the cashier. Nearly all of them are foreigners. Not tourists, but foreign workers I suppose.

We had a walk along the block. Theres a small thai food corner with seats at the already narrow sidewalk. There were two foreigners, a man and a woman, sitting having some thai meal. They seemed not bothered by people walking by very close to their table. They were in work attire with their ID lanyards around their necks. I looked at their ID cards, they were in Chinese or Korean alphabets. I heard them speaking, and assumed, from their language, that they are Koreans. There could be a Korean company in the area, or they are embassy officials.

At the next block, theres Piccolo Cafe. The interior looked decent. I saw just two customers inside, Caucasian couple. From the way they dressed, my guess is they are tourists. There was nothing more to see further down. So we turned around, crossed the road to Burger King. Walked down that block towards Padang SOAS. I was excited for a while as we approached a restaurant with big pictures of familiar looking fat sandwiches. Wow! we have subway sandwiches already??! My excitement was premature. It was called Substation Restaurant serving “Subway-inspired” sandwiches according to their tagline.

Along the block, we saw a sign of a new cafe called Matcha Mana. Sounds like the Malay word “macamana” as in how?? I wonder if it is deliberate. It is located inside through a small entranceway. The space was tiny. My bedroom is bigger than it. It is serving Matcha related food and drinks. I knew about Matcha from cooking shows on TV. It is some kind of green tea. Ive tried Matcha cookies, they were nice but I was not too crazy about them. I then wonder who are their target customers being located at a desolate spot. Perhaps BIBD employees or the two Koreans who I saw having the thai meal earlier.

The next block looked a bit deserted with empty units. I peered inside. They looked dirty and haunted. Theres the Ayamku Restaurant there with a decent number of customers inside, all locals. The floor, tables and chairs, even the entrance door are dilapidated. There seemed to be no effort to make the restaurant look attractive. I didn’t even want to imagine about the kitchen. I thought Id buy some fried chicken for Dupey and his friends so we went inside. Im sure Dupey doesn’t mind the lack of hygiene.

With some fried chicken in tow, we walked towards Yayasan. I was told that there are some new things inside. At last, some life can be seen inside Jollibee Yayasan. People dining, noisy kids playing at its playground. We were just passing through and as we exited Jollibee it was quiet again. I think the closure of Hua Ho Yayasan really affected the visitor traffic of the Yayasan.

We went to check out the new food court on the first floor. First impression, the floor was clean and the table and chairs were neatly arranged. Promising. The wide glass windows allow diners to enjoy the beauty of Masjid SOAS. I just wished they cleaned the window’s exterior. I can see lots of dirt and goo sticking to the glass. Not the sight you want to see when trying to enjoy some meal. Back to the foodcourt, there are varieties of choices from around 6 vendors. There are Malaysian, Indonesian, Thai food, BBQ and Grill, Fruit Bar, and Danne Burger. Only the burger menu sticks in my mind because of the colourful buns. I think they want to make them look like macaroons.

We continued to check out the first floor. Theres a big colourful souvenir shop run by Aewon. They sell locally-made snacks and other foodstuff. The Brunei souvenirs are quite decent looking. Most of them are keychains and magnets. Brunei snowglobes would be nice but they don’t have it. They also sell Thai and Malaysia souvenirs, which I found a bit strange. I saw some proboscis monkey plushes. Granted that the proboscis monkeys are only found in Borneo, I relate them more to Sabah and Sarawak than Brunei. They should actually sell the Brunei public bus plushes instead. At a flat rate of $1 per person, it is certainly something unique about Brunei, much like the London Bus, only cheaper, more colourful, single deck, and can pick up and drop passengers very much anywhere even in the middle of the road.

Still in the souvenir shop, we came across models of Malay wooden kampong houses with nice wooden benches and tables right under their windows. Much like a studio set. There were also some Malay costumes hanging nearby. We figured that they are for tourists to wear and take their photos with the houses as background. Cool. But the model houses are colourful and looked more like the wooden houses you see in Malacca. Kampong Ayer houses look less fancy than that. After taking some pictures and goofing around at the set, we said thank you to the shop attendant and left.

Right outside the souvenir shop theres a tiny booth selling locally made icecreams. The wall of that area is nicely decorated with colourful cartoon strips. There are wooden stools and tables. Very relaxing and fun environment. I tried the vanilla icecream, took some selfies, and off we went.

On our way out, we went into a store called Lemari. They sell mostly handbags, MK in particular. There are other items too like scarves and some fancy trinkets. My guess is that they are items they bought in bulk during sales at shopping outlets and warehouses in the US or UK. The same goes to another shop called the Hive at the ground floor. Other than branded handbags and shoes, they also sell fancy things, those we usually see at theme parks or disneyland. The prices are reasonable and certainly save us the trouble and spending of going overseas ourselves to get them, so why not? It was at the Hive that I spotted something that Ive been planning to get but never expect to find here in Brunei – a handbag raincoat. Yes, handbags need raincoats too. 

By then we were already tired. But there was still one last place that we wanted to check out – the BIBD Connects building at the Taman Mahkota and the giant photo frame nearby. Both were just opened in April 2019. I was more excited about seeing how cool the building design is rather than what its 7 local vendors got to offer. Made from assembled container parts, the building is indeed so beautiful and modern-looking. I don’t mind having one. But I wonder if they rust over time. The large frame is quite cool too. But it lies in the middle of the dark grass field. I had to be careful with what I was stepping on. There could be dog poop everywhere. I took some nice pictures of Masjid SOAS through the frame. But if I want nice pictures of the mosque I can just google image it. To prove that we were actually there, we tried to take some selfies in front of the “framed” mosque. Nothing worked. I asked my niece to stand at the corner of the frame. But it was so dark, using a flash also didn’t work. The picture came out superb nonetheless. We should come back and try again during daylight.

MF

Cement the Affair

This is part of the bizarre firsts coverage but I thought this piece deserves its own block. I watched a lot of crime, forensic and investigative cases on TV and youtube. One way to pull off a perfect crime is when there is no body. Although this case did not involve foul play, it ticked some of the boxes for sloppy ways to conceal a dead body.

In 2013, what began to be a regular covert rendezvous between two secret lovers became snafu when the woman, 39 year old, just dropped dead (after some heavy breathing and coughing). In a panic, instead of just fleeing the scene, the guy decided that he must hide the body. This thing happened at a house in Kg Salambigar which belonged the lady’s friend. The lady has the key to the house which the house owner was well aware of. At that time, the owner of the house was away for the holidays.

Question: It will not be too puzzling for the lady to be in the house since it was her friend’s and she has the key. She could be just checking if the house was not broken into, or perhaps she could just be stopping by for a toilet break or watering the plants. Why didn’t he just flee, wipe his fingerprints, clean the house, get rid of anything in contact with his DNA and leave the body there to be found? My guess is that in his head, if there was no body to see or to be found, then he can convince himself that it was just a bad bad dream and nothing had ever happened.

Maybe after cursing shit shit shit many times, my guess is the first thing he did was to find a bedsheet, blanket, garbage bag or carpet to cover the body, especially the face. Since it was still daylight, carrying the body to the car was not a good idea. And this is an average sized 40+ year old local man who obviously couldn’t carry the body on his shoulder. In this kind of situation, a psychopath killer’s solution will be to use a large trolley bag, or (if he has a few hours to spare) hack the body in the bathtub and dispose the parts at different locations.

Now, back to the elephant in the room – the dead body. By a stroke of luck (at least for him), there happened to be a 10-foot ditch within the compound of the house. But seriously, 10 feet is quite deep. Why would there be a ditch that deep near a house?? Desperate to get the body “out of sight” he put it in the ditch and covered the ditch with some zinc roofing sheets which happened to be lying nearby and some shrubs. This was where he had his first moment of stupidity during the entire situation. While putting bodies under the ground is one popular method of hiding dead bodies, people only do that either at properties that they own, abandoned places, somewhere in the jungle or anywhere where you don’t expect people to have reason to go to. But the genius chose to put the body in the ditch near the house owned by the lady’s friend who would return home from holidays in a few days and certainly would smell the stench or at least notice that something was different with the ditch.

Getting rid of the car was easy. He just drove it to a nearby electrical power station and walked back to the house where he took his car and went home. Perhaps during the drive home he just realised about the stench that would come out from the body eventually decomposing. So three days later he came back to the house to do what became his second moment of stupidity. When planning to deny being involved in anything wrong or illegal, the best thing is to minimise the number of people involved in the scheme whether knowingly or unknowingly. But the genius had to order for delivery truckloads of stones and cement to be poured in the ditch. He paid for them using the money from the deceased handbag, some nerve! There was no point of him using a fake name when in making the order he was using his own phone that revealed his phone number. He also interacted with the truck drivers showing them where to dump the load allowing them to see his face.

So there you go. His sloppiness led to his arrest just five days after the unfortunate incident. In 2014, he was sentenced to six month jail term by the Magistrate Court, and a life sentence with no possibility of parole by his wife…just saying….

Sad ending to this story, in 2015 the man passed away due to poor health.

Bizarre Firsts

As the country’s population grows bigger and succumbed to the curses of development, more and more firsts are beginning to happen. These include crimes and other bizarre incidents.

First murder by shotgun – In the 1980s, the feud between two local plantation workers ended in tragedy when one of them shot dead the other using a shotgun. Both men were employed under the Syarikat Perusahaan Montrio, a Japanese company working on large scale tapioca plantation at Kg. Sinaut, Tutong. It was said that the fighting was over the allegation that one of the men was having an affair with the other’s wife. The killer had acquired the shotgun from Limbang. He was sentenced to death. Those who remember this case refer to it as the “murder on the hill” given that the plantation where the killing occurred was located on a hill.

First murder of employer’s baby by a domestic helper – In 1991, a domestic helper killed her employer’s 18-months old baby by hacking the baby’s neck with a butcher knife. The killing happened less than 24-hours after the domestic helper reported for duty at the employer’s house in Tutong.[Twist of Fate]

First dead body found at garbage dumping site – In 1996, a man got the shock of his life when while throwing his trash at the Binturan camp garbage dump site, he saw a dead body of a man lying among the heaps of trash. The body was badly bruised that seemed to be the result of multiple blows and struck by a blunt object. The man was beaten to death with excessive brutality. [Scorned]

First sensational spouse killing case – In 1997, a man was stabbed to death by his wife. I stand corrected, but relying on my memory, the victim was the owner of the Seri Meradun Restaurant who at that time had two wives. The wife who eventually killed him was his second wife, a Thai national. Digging further through those who remember the case, it was said that she stabbed him after a heated argument over money. She was convicted and sent to jail. I’m yet to find out how long was the jail term. But one thing for sure, she is already out of jail and ironically is currently running the same restaurant previously owned by her late husband that she killed. Question – Why was she not deported after being released from jail??

First armed robbery that caused death – In 1997, a gang robbery at the Tiong Hin Superstore in broad daylight killed one of the family members of the store’s owner. He was shot. The robbers were said to be security guards. Established in 1988, the store never recovered after the incident and the premise closed down in 2003. What happened to the robbers? They were arrested, 3 of them (two locals and one foreigner), currently still in jail serving a life sentence. What kind of weapons were used (guns?) and how did they acquire them?? Upon probing further (asking around), I’ve been told that the perpetrators or one of them were/was police personnel. If this was the case, that would explain the gun.

First dead body found in shallow grave – On 30 July 2000, some children chasing a kite saw a hand protruding from the ground and discovered a decomposing body of a female buried in a shallow grave in a jungle area in Tungku, not far from JIS and DST Complex. Police later released photos of the clothes that she was wearing at time of death in the hope of getting her identity. She was wearing a blue T-Shirt with the logo G5001 and blue jeans of LONA brand. Ive not come across any updates on this case. [Buried Secrets]

First case of spouse murder by poisoning. [I said first case because there could be other murders by poisoning before this that were just ruled as deaths by natural causes] – In April 2001, a 46-year-old mother in Kg Padnunok, Tutong poisoned her 43-year-old husband, with whom by the way she had 10 children. After being hospitalised for 25 days, the husband succumbed to his condition and passed away. Her reason? She couldn’t stand the constant physical and emotional abuse that she and her kids had been subjected to by the husband. [Last Straw]

First abduction from a basement parking – In 2003, armed men abducted a 34-year-old woman from the Badi’ah building basement parking. She was robbed, assaulted and was left tied up around a tree somewhere in the forested area near Kg Bukit Panggal in Tutong. She was badly hurt but luckily was found alive by family members. The men were quickly arrested and all were handed down heavy sentences. Lets just say that they are all still in jail today. It was considered as one of the horrific crimes ever committed in the country. The  machete that they used during the abduction is one of the exhibits on display at the police museum.

First heinous triple murder – In 2004, a couple and their two year old daughter were murdered at their home in Kg Serusop. I remember this case very well since the murdered wife was my high school senior and the house was located behind our hostel building. What made this case more heinous is that justice was never served because the murderer went free. Take a crime scene that was so compromised and combine it with defence lawyers with zero conscience, an evil killer walked free. This is a guy who smothered an innocent two year old toddler with a pillow, and brutally beat to death the couple with whom he was acquainted allegedly over money. Anyways, years later, even his smart ass lawyers could not save him from karma. He died of natural causes. Or was it really natural causes? Rumours that went around alleged that he was poisoned.

First horrific double homicide – In 2007, a married couple were murdered at their very home in Kg Telamba, Tutong. Their throats were slashed. The husband’s body was found inside the house, and the wife’s body were lying on the ground a few feet outside. Sadly, those responsible were never brought to justice. The people of the Kampong alleged that the murderers are juveniles from the Kampong as well [Presumed guilty until proven innocent]. In their 30s now, they still live among them, scot-free. I hope they have nightmares every night for the rest of their lives. [In Plain Sight]

First multiple casualties from gas explosion – At about midday on 30 December 2008, a gas explosion ripped through a seafood-processing factory in Serasa which killed 3 foreign workers and injured 16 others. Upon investigation, it was revealed that the workers were trying to install a spiral freezer system using ammonia as the refrigerant and in the process of testing, the ammonia tank ruptured causing the explosion. 32 workers were inside the plant at the time of the explosion. Nearby residents could hear the sound and felt the vibration of the blast.

First carbon monoxide poisoning in vehicle – In 2012, two locals, a 24 year old man and a 22 year old woman, were found dead in a saloon car at the Hwa Ho Manggis Mall basement parking. It was later announced that the two were victims of carbon monoxide poisoning. Those two were said to be students from a nearby technical college. Other than that there were not much details about the deceased or the model of car they were in.

First dead body appearing at random place – In 2013, a dead body of a man was found inside an electric substation near the Seri Kemayan Restaurant at Batu 1. There was no followup information (at least to my knowledge) on who the dead man was, what killed him, how did the body get there.

First social media murder – In 2015, a 43-year old local man was murdered at Jalan Pandan 7, Kuala Belait District. Two men lured the victim by posing as a girl on the AsiaFreeChat mobile chat platform who offered sex for $3,500. The intention was once the victim took the bait, they would kill him and take his money. After killing the man, they discovered that there was no money with him. They took his ATM card only to discover that the account was empty. Could the victim have sensed that it was a bogus deal? Or he never planned to pay anything for the sex. Either way, he totally didn’t expect that he was dealing with psychopaths. [Poisonous Encounter]

First double kidnapping and murder – In 2017, a 73 year old woman and her 23 year old adopted daughter, which were reported missing, were found dead by the roadsides at two different locations. The body of the 73 year old woman was found at the Bukit Panggal area, while the 23 year old was found at Kampong Dadap in Kilanas. Their bodies were found a week after they were last seen alive. The locations of their bodies were revealed by a 25 year old drug addict local who was found driving the victims’ car days after the women were reported missing. The sad thing is that a day before the women went missing, the drug addict had attacked a man with a knife at Batu Satu. Had he been apprehended then, the two women may not have had their lives senselessly taken by the idiot. The words that went around at that time were that the two women when last seen were on their way to go to Bandar for the Golden Jubilee celebration. Very disheartening. And if the information that they were strangled to death was true, it is very sad to imagine how helpless the elderly woman was to even put up a fight. Question – has he been convicted or the trial is still going on??

First robbery on passenger by people who offered the passenger a lift. I don’t know the fancy name for this kind of crime yet. But I do know that I’ve not heard about such crime happening in Brunei before until I read about it in the newspaper recently  – On 15 June 2019, two local men, ages 29 and 28, offered a man a ride from Mentiri to BSB for $1 (obvious red flag). Along the way, they stopped the car and robbed the man at knifepoint. Both were  arrested a day later. It was not surprising that both were unemployed. They even grinned when their mugshots were taken. My guess is that they are happy about going to jail and the prospects of free meals.

First death by elevator – On 06 May 2020, a foreign worker died from severe head injuries when he was crushed by a cargo elevator at the Pertama Jaya Department Store in Jerudong.

First maid murder by employer – In October 2020, it finally happened, a foreign domestic helper was brutally murdered by her employer. Over the years, a number of foreign domestic helpers in the country were subjected to physical torture by their employers, being denied their salaries and all. But, being murdered? Not in anyone’s wildest imagination.

First case where a man attacked and inflicted permanent injuries to a victim, at the victim’s home, caught on CCTV, but just got away with a fine – In February 2019, Lance Corporal Amzar of the RBAF came to the victim’s home uninvited, beat the crap out of the victim unprovoked, put the victim on a chokehold, flailing him around like a rag doll. It was a bloody attack and the act was caught on CCTV recording which was passed to the police for evidence. In 2021, Lance Corporal Amzar was just fined $3000 for the attack, didn’t spend a day in jail and now still serving in the military. [No Just-Ease]

Do I know me?

People say no one knows you better than yourself. Its kind of funny though. I was watching on youtube Sir Paul McCartney was interviewed and being asked about the year this and that happened. He completely couldn’t recall any. Then, I asked myself, all the things that happened in my life, the milestones, do I forget the years as well. As we grow older, there will be more and more timelines that we cannot recall. This is where keeping a journal really helps.

I do remember getting my first hotmail account. That was in 2001. It was recommended by a friend, so I searched for “hotmale” just as I heard it. What came out were pictures of men with no clothes and six packs. I managed to get the spelling right after trying to make sense out of it. Signing up I was asked for an account name. The first thing in my mind was not my name, but the title of a porn movie “timegate”. Obviously, the account name had already been taken. So I added 2001 at the end. There you go…my first hotmail account. I don’t use hotmail anymore though, but we had good memories together….