On 13 September 2019, the country was shocked by the discovery of skeletal remains of a baby at Kg Salambigar. The following day, it was reported that a married couple has been arrested in connection to the discovery and that the victim was a 5 months old baby girl. [Case Ongoing]. As bizarre as it may sound, this is not the first time in the country that innocent babies / toddlers became victims of senseless violence or gross negligence that led to deaths, and certainly not the worst so far. These coward monsters have been walking among us for quite some time now, with the first known case happening as early as 1999. Warning: The worst case will make you sick to the stomach.
Here are some of the more recent cases:
Date: 26 August 2019
Victim: 1 year 4 month old girl
Crime Location: RPN Kg Lambak Kanan
Cause of Death: Injuries due to physical abuse (slapped, bitten, pinched, etc).
How the crime was uncovered: Alerted by medics
Person(s) Responsible: The kid’s parents (39 year old father and 36 year old mother), local, both on meth.
Sentence: 4 years imprisonment for the mother while the husband is yet to be sentenced.
Date: 20 December 2018
Victim: 2 year old boy
Crime Location: Lumut
Cause of Death: Injuries due to physical abuse
Person(s) Responsible: 34 year old boyfriend of the boy’s mother, uniformed personnel, local
Date: 17 August 2016
Victim: 3 year old girl
Crime Location: Perpindahan Mentiri
Cause of Death: Multiple internal injuries due to physical abuse – thrown, punched, slapped, kicked
How the crime was uncovered: Alerted by medics
Person(s) Responsible: The girl’s 29 year old uncle, local
Sentence: 13 years imprisonment, 8 strokes of the cane
Date: 13 September 2013
Victim: 3 year old girl
Crime Location: Everywhere, including in the car. Body was disposed in the bushes by the roadside at Ulu Kuala Balai
Cause of Death: Multiple injuries due to physical abuse.
Person(s) Responsible: The girl’s “foster” parents. They acquired the girl by conning the kid’s biological parents.
Sentence: 16 years imprisonment, 10 strokes of the cane for the man; 8 years imprisonment for the woman
Looking at the ages of the victims, they were 3 year olds and below. These are the period where they are at the mercy of their guardians. Had they gotten the chance to attend pre-school, their teachers would have noticed telltale signs of physical abuse at home, and the deaths could have been prevented.
It was reported that the 5 months old baby girl whose skeletal remains were recently discovered in Kg Salambigar was killed sometimes in May 2018. It is heartbreaking that no one looked for her, no one missed her. Her grandparents, uncles, aunties, perhaps. At least, someone other than her parents must have known about her existence and thus would have noticed about her disappearance. But, there was none. Really sad…
Family members of the perpetrators could be biased and prone to be in denial and turn a blind eye on signs of physical abuse to the child. This is where family friends and neighbours can step up to the plate. They can quickly report their suspicions to the police or the Family Services helpline number. But, how many of the public are well aware of this social responsibility and know what numbers to call? With the clearly increasing number of cases, more need be done to increase the public awareness.
Many, if not all of the perpetrators are within the 20-40 years age bracket. What went wrong? Why are they so messed up? What could explain their short fuses and acting out their rage in violence on the helpless infants. Drugs can be one of the explanation for the aggressive behaviours. In two of the recent cases mentioned above, it was alleged that the perpetrators were using drugs. Go figure.
Mental disorder or depression can also explain the lack of judgement. Unlike drugs abuse, the presence of mental disorder can’t be identified through blood or urine tests. No one can say that they don’t have it without undergoing proper mental evaluation. A seemingly okay person can mask a mental disorder which can unravel into violence anytime. This can become easily triggered if combined with financial hardship, low self esteem, and other screw ups in the person’s life.
This brings me to the worst ever infanticide case in the country. Where do I even begin… Caught Off Gut




, a caucasian couple who were just about done with their meals. Next-door was a different story. One side of the cafe’s wall is all glass, so we could see the people doing laundry inside the laundromat overlooking it. It was quite distracting.


